Black Friday is coming soon, and one item many genealogy researchers will be looking for is DNA test kits to give as gifts for relatives. A common question is should I activate the kit before giving or sending it to my relative? The answer depends on: Which testing company? Will you be in charge of the kit, or your relative? The Basics Let's start with the basics.  Have you tested yourself? If so, choosing the same company for both of you will simplify matters. If not, test yourself too . Test results get their meaning from comparison with matches. If you are purchasing from FamilyTreeDNA, MyHeritage or LivingDNA, you can upload your results to those companies, and my advice is that everyone should do so whether or not you are buying kits for relatives. This is known as "fishing in all the ponds." I would add uploading to Gedmatch to the list above. Have you asked your relative if they want to test? Have you explained to them in as much detail